Allright ladies, the guys have some tips on better bonding w. us..love it!!!

~Charli

1. Pay attention to the little things

She'll see shades of meaning in small gestures, so an off-hand comment like, "I'd rather watch the game" might say more than you meant it to. Also, a small act of kindness (a kiss on the cheek or calling ahead to make reservations) will blow her away because she'll consider both the gesture and the thoughtfulness behind the gesture.

2. To keep up with her memory, take notes

It's a scientific fact: women remember everything. The hippocampus takes up a larger part of the female brain than the male brain. That's the place where memories are formed. There's a reason the PDA was invented. Use it to keep up with her hippocampus.

3. Follow her calm lead versus starting fights

She's much better at holding in her aggressive impulses than you are. So if you are at a party and someone insults you, your brain will say, "Kill the guy!", while hers will say "There are people around." If you want to impress her, be quiet and behave as good as she does.

4. Write her a poem... or at least a cute email

Women's brains are wired to be more language-centric than men's. This could help explain why women know the right thing to say, send cards and love notes and choose words with care. So it wouldn't hurt to get the help of a trusted female friend. She'll know just what to say.

5. Be her serotonin

Women's brains make less serotonin. That's the brain chemical that helps make people happy. So if she has a tough day at work, try a pep talk, back rub or a long hug.

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