She says, "I tend to think   things are love and then look back and reevaluate... I know how many people   I've said 'I love you' to. I could probably count it up, but I don't feel like   it. Part of me feels you can't say you were truly in love if it didn't last.   If I end up getting married and having kids, that's when I'll know it's real   - because it lasted. I don't think there's an option for me to fall in love   slowly, or at medium speed. I either do or I don't. I don't think it through,   really, which is a good thing and a bad thing. You don't look before you leap,   which is like, 'Yay, this is awesome! Let's not think twice!' And then you're   like, 'We used to be flying. Now we're falling. What's happening?'"