Signs She's Interested In You

Posted by Abby Crawford on

Ok boys, do you need help figuring out if the girl you like is into you?! Maybe this list can help you out!

 

She can’t take your eyes off of you
  Whether she’s looking at a holiday clothing sale or Channing Tatum, the   longer a woman holds eye contact, the greater her level of attraction. Eye contact   is an invitation, so much so that women can even feel rejected if you do not   respond to their gaze. If you notice her pupils are wider than normal, you can   bet you’ll be getting her number. Pupils dilate due to the release of oxytocin   and dopamine, another limbic-system-controlled response to attraction. If her   eyes are wandering, you’d be better off looking for more responsive company.

She stays close enough for you to kiss her
  Pay attention to how she reacts when you move close enough to whisper. Does   she turn her cheek to listen closely or pull further away? The greater her level   of comfort and attraction, the closer she will position herself and the less   space she will put between you. Check out the way she positions personal items,   like her purse and drink; if they get in your way, she doesn’t want you   to stay.

She starts to act like your reflection
  Mirroring, touted as a sales technique to build rapport, is a strong indicator   of attraction. Studies have shown that the tendency for two people to move in   sync is one of the greatest predictors of attraction. A great example is dancing   -- do you seem connected or is she stepping all over your feet? If it just doesn’t   feel right, she may be looking for her next partner.

She wants to know you’re into her
  In order to feel comfortable wanting you, women need to feel wanted in return.   According to the Institute for Social Research, women will act sexually forward   in order to see if you’ll make a move. These signals include displaying   the neck and licking or biting the lips. If she suddenly starts to settle down   and stops sending out the heat, it’s time to go take a cold shower.

She keeps asking you questions
  If she’s into you, she’ll want to know more about who you are. Pay   attention to how engaged she is in your conversation. Does she try to keep it   going and keep asking you questions? Responses that are mainly one word are   dismissive and indicate you’re better off moving on.

She wants you all to herself
  A woman will make it known that you’re hers if she’s into you. She’ll   interrupt you speaking to another girl and make sure that everyone sees you’re   together. If she isn’t starting a catfight or two over you, she may not   think you’re worth fighting for.

She stalks you on Facebook
  Facebook is a goldmine of information. If you find evidence that she’s   been digging, such as comments on old photos or links, she’s searching   for information about you. Her attraction makes her curious. Be aware -- if   there isn’t a friendship request, she may be hoping you don’t connect   in real life.

She spends time on you, even when you’re not there
  Attraction grows even when you’re not around. A rule of thumb is that she’s   yours the moment she starts commenting instead of conversing (communicating   when you can’t respond). If she seems distant, she may be waiting for you   to make a move but most likely doesn’t have you on her mind.

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