Dear Abby,

My boyfriend and I have been together just over a year and now he has been acting really weird. He never wants to go out on dates, he just wants to sit at home and watch T.V. We never hang with friends or anything, but when I want to hang with my friends (girls and guys) he gets mad. Sometimes he is okay with me hanging with my girl friends, but when I even talk to the guys he gets really mad. He also is very reminding that I am kind of bigger than he wants me to be(belly fat). I don't know whether to just keep dealing with him being mad at me or if i should end it?

Confused in Manitowoc

Dear Confused,

Sorry to say it, but I don't see what there is to be confused about. This guy sounds like nothing a girl should want in a man. He should not be controling who your friends are, whether it's a guy or girl...shouldn't matter. There is an amount of trust that goes into relationships and he doesn't seem to have any in you. The comment that really put me over the edge was the fact that he reminds you of your size...who is he to determine what big is?! There is no such thing as the perfect body. Even models aren't perfect, they have photoshop taking off their every imperfection. Hate to say it, but I think my readers will agree that you need to dump this loser. YOU CAN DO BETTER. I guarantee it.