Dear Abby,

I'm falling for one of my friend's ex girlfriends....and she is falling for me too. Is this ok?

Falling Badly in Manitowoc

Dear Falling Badly,

Yeah....I think this might be bad. Does your friend know about this? I would talk to him first. If he is cool with it, then go with whatever you feel! However, remember that this girl used to date one of your friends. It might be kind of akward....but I don't know the relationship between you and your friend and I don't know how serious him and his ex were. Feelings can't be helped and everyone needs to understand that, but make sure this relationship doesn't ruin your friendship that was there first.