Dear Abby,

I just started up a new job that gives me more hours than I used to have. I am so bothered that now that I don't see my boyfriend as much, he doesn't find a way to be with me when he can. It's like it doesn't matter....what does this mean?

Ignored in Green Bay

Dear Ignored,

He is probably just not used to this new schedule yet. Sometimes it takes guys longer to process a new routine. He probably hasn't noticed that you aren't seeing each other as much. Do what you have to to let him know you're hurting, if he doesn't change, then more drastic measure have to be taken.