Dear Abby,

My boyfriend and I have nothing in common. It's getting to the point where we don't know why we are together in the first place. He goes off with his friends and does his hobbies and I go off with my friends and do mine? How can we fix this problem?

No Common Ground in Brillion

Dear No Common Ground,

Try to pick up new hobbies together. If your current hobbies don't strike a note with each other, why not try something new...together? Something that is gender neutral and fun for both of you. This is going to require the both of you to sit down and think of new ideas. I don't know your current hobbies or what kind of personalities you have, so I don't even know where to start with hobby ideas! Feel free to write back again with more details about who you guys are and I would be happy to give some suggestions!