Dear Abby,

I've been kind of seeing this guy casually for about a month. Nothing serious, we just enjoy each other's company. I really like him, but he never asks me to hang out and I'm sick of always being the one to ask. Well, now there is this other guy who is very outgoing and he asked me out to dinner. Should I go? Do I tell my "casual friend" about this?

Not Sure in Green Bay

Dear Not Sure,

Yes, I would tell your "casual friend" about this new guy, but I woudn't feel guilty about going to dinner with this other guy. If nothing serious was set in stone with this other guy, then feel free to play the field, but make sure you're on the same page so that he doesn't think you're "cheating" or "playing" him. Go to dinner, enjoy being somewhat single, and take your time choosing the right guy for you!