Dear Abby,

My current relationship is starting to fizzle. I'm considering leaving...am I being selfish?

-Anonymous

Dear Anonymous,

The only advice I have for you is why are you leaving? Just because it's getting boring? Do you talk about your problems? Does your partner know you're thinking about leaving? Is there any way to possibly fix this? What do you think? There are some questions you have to consider before just leaving because it is starting to fizzle. If you gave it everything you have and nothing has changed, then feel free to leave. I would just make sure that you're confident in your decision so that you don't have any regrets.