Dear Abby,

I've been dating this guy for about a month, but whenever I ask him to be exclusive he kind of changes the subject. How do I make him commit?

Irritated in GB

Dear Irritated,

Remember, you can't make anyone do anything! However, there are some little things that could speed up the commitment process. Always be willing to do something new or something that he enjoys. This will show him that you're willing to compromise and try new things. Maybe show him your sweet side. Invite him over for a homemade dinner or pick up his dry cleaning. Also, always make sure you look good for him. This will show that you are trying to please him and he'll appreciate the fact that you're at your best just for him. Finally, something that many girls need to work on is letting the little stuff go. Maybe he asked to rain check your date because he wants to go out with the boys. Was anyone really hurt? Did he not promise to make it up to you? Let it go and it will show him that you're easy going and relaxed.