Dear Abby,

I am 21 years old and recently asked my girlfriend of a year to marry me. We have everything set including the date, and I find myself thinking about my previous girlfriend a lot. We always talked about getting married, and now that I'm getting married to someone else, I find myself thinking of past years. I'm freaking out, what should I do?

Re-Thinking in Green Bay

Dear Re-Thinking,

I'm sorry that you're having second thoughts about your wedding, but you know, they might be normal. You originally thought you were going to marry this other girl, and now you're going to do it with someone else. I would think it is normal to have your ex pop in your head for ONLY that reason. If you're second guessing your FEELINGS, then that is a different issue. I would suggest sitting down and talking with your fiancee and letting her know your doubts. If you're going to get married, you need to know that the other person is there for you and you're a team. Please talk to her.