Bad Friend, Good Friend?

Posted by Abby Crawford on

Dear Abby,
  I have a friend who has had a girlfriend for a while.  She just recently moved in with him.  The thing is, he hasn't been very faithful to her, and when she is gone will go around with other girls and cheat on her.  The girlfriend doesn't know this, but I feel bad for her, and when she does confront him, he lies. 
 
The bad thing is, he has kissed me, and then goes back to his girl and we are hanging out with his girlfriend and they will cuddle.  It's hard to watch.
 
I am thinking about ending the friendship, but he is a good friend.  What do I do?
 
Confused

Dear Confused,

I hope this doesn't come off harshly, but he sounds like a bad friend! A bad boyfriend! He has dishonest traits and has gotten you involved. I suggest looking for a new friend. He lies, cheats, and now has gotten you involved by kissing you. You are better than that and you deserve better friends! I also highly suggest telling his girlfriend. Moving in is a huge step in a relationship, it's like being married without the paperwork. She deserves to know what she's getting in to. Be the adult and sit down with them seperately and discuss what's going on. Maybe he'll change, maybe he won't, but at least you did your part! Good luck!

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