Dear Abby,

My girlfriend lives on a strict timeline. She plans out her whole day the night before, and then expects me to memorize it and relies on me to fit myself into her schedule, but it can't interfere with the plans she's already made. SHE'S DRIVING ME NUTS! HELP!

Timeline in Appleton

Dear Timeline,

There's nothing wrong with having a plan for the next day, mostly because, I do that too. The part that's kind of hard to comprehend is the fact that you have to fit yourself into her schedule. If she is making a schedule for each day, she should let you know when she'd like to see you. Sit down with her and ask her to let you know when she'd like to see you each day so that her timeline isn't screwed up. She'll probably thank you for letting her make the choices and for showing interest that you want to see her that day.