Dear Abby,

I am getting married in 4 months and I couldn't be happier, but I find myself getting nervous. It isn't because of the marriage necessarily, I'm just nervous about having to officially be an adult. You know? And being the man of the house, I now have another life I'm responsible for and what not, and it is starting to get to me, any advice?

Jittery in Manitowoc

Dear Jittery,

I am not married, so I can't give you experienced advice, but let me give you some advice that a friend of mine gave his friend on his wedding day. Stay calm, cool, and collected. You're not alone up there, you have your best friends to your right, your family behind you, and the love of your life on your left. Remember, you love her and you chose her to be with you for the rest of your life. A marriage is a partnership. You are together forever and you never have to worry about being lonely again. Can you tell my friend is a hopeless romantic? Hahahahaha, best of luck on your wedding day and more importantly, your marriage :)