Dear Abby,

My boyfriend of a year and I broke up in January after I found out that he had been cheating on me on and off for the WHOLE year we dated! So anyway, I found another guy recently and we aren't really an official item, but we had our first kiss a week ago, am I moving on too fast?

Moving On in Kaukauna

Dear Moving On,

In my opinion, I would usually say yes, you are moving on too fast; however, your ex-boyfriend was not a good guy! He betrayed your trust and didn't care about your feelings. I'm not saying jump into another relationship tomorrow, I would take this slow. Even though he cheated on you, on your side, you didn't know this was going on, so you were still loving him as if he wasn't doing anything wrong because you were unaware of what was really happening. Don't jump into another relationship this instant, take time to let your heart heal and allow your ex to totally leave your heart, but don't be afraid to love again, not all guys are like your ex :) Have fun with this new guy, but try not to get serious to quickly.