Dear Abby,

There is a girl that I am totally into! However, we are very good friends and I'm trying to change that status, but I think she's trying to keep it there...or not! I don't know! We keep making plans to watch a movie or grab some dinner, but something always comes up! Coming from another girl, what is she doing?

Confused in Green Bay

Dear Confused,

Hmmmm, you know, even though I'm a girl, I can't speak for the one in your life! We are all different and have different emotions, feelings, and reasons, but I'll do my best! When she blows you off, does she make any attempt to rain check? In my opinion, its a great idea to date someone who started off as a friend. Yes, you might be risking a nasty break up and a ruined friendship, but you also might have just met "the one". If you're not getting any negative vibes off of this girl and she treats you with respect, then keep making plans until she commits. It might be frustrating, but prove to her how much you want this. Good luck, but keep your guard up just incase she's actually blowing you off:)