Dear Abby,

I am part of a really tight group of girls. We love each other and always have each other's backs. However, one of our girls recently got a boyfriend and now we never see her. Any advice on how to approach her? Or are we wrong?

Lost a Friend in Reedsville

Dear Lost a Friend,

It is never good to ditch your friends for a boyfriend/girlfriend. It is very important to maintain balance in your life. However, if this is a new relationship, she is probably just enjoying gettin to know him. I'm sure as time passes, she will naturally learn how to balanace friends and a boyfriend. I would just give it some time. If nothing changes, then it is time to sit her down and express your concerns; but for now, just to avoid drama, I would let her ride out the honeymoon phase and let things naturally get back to normal.