Dear Abby,

My wife is one who needs to be told all the time that I love her. It doesn't irritate me, I actually think its kind of cute. Here's the problem, I am not one who needs the constant reminder. I know she loves me and I don't need to hear it 24/7, but she does. What are some ways that women would appreciate to know that they are loved?

Clueless Man in Appleton

Dear Clueless Man,

JOIN THE CLUB! Men always have problems expressing their love, but here are some cute ways that you can tell her you love her. Go to an online greeting card website.  Most are free and easy and take 1 minute to put together. Email it to her while you know she's on the computer and I guarantee it'll put a smile on her face. What about short text messages? When you find a free minute of time, send her a quick text that maybe says, " I <3 U". She'll love it! The fact that you are thinking about her randomly throughout the day will mean the world to her! Don't forget to do little favors for her too. Clean the house, cook dinner, or maybe even make her a homemade card that expresses your love for her. Some of these things may seem silly to you, but I guarantee to her, it'll mean the world.